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860 236-9350 / Text 860 977-0660
690 Flatbush Avenue, West Hartford, CT 06110-1308
Text 860 977-0660
Connecticut law requires that divorce courts enter custody and visitation orders "that serve the best interests of the child and provide the child with the active and consistent involvement of both parents commensurate with their abilities and interests." The law requires divorce judges to focus on what is best for the children and, when appropriate, to try and keep both parents involved in their children's lives.
We agree that the focus on custody cases should always be on what is best for the children. However, we also recognize that most parents know their children much better than do divorce judges, mediators and evaluators. We understand the anxiety and fear faced by clients in custody fights. Sometimes the other parent truly is not fit to raise children and our role as lawyers is to help our clients make that fact apparent to the divorce court. We listen to our divorce clients with the goal of helping them fully present the facts to the divorce court to obtain what is best for their children. To discuss your specific situation and concerns, call us at 860 236-9350.
Custody cases are complex. We know that a parent can hurt his or her chances of obtaining custody by unreasonably attacking the fitness of the other parent. Such an approach can backfire because divorce judges generally believe that a child needs the attention and care of both parents. A parent who insists on attacking the other parent without good cause may make a divorce judge feel that he or she does not deserve custody because he or she will not support the other parent's role in raising the children.
A divorce can be bifurcated (split) between custody and financial issues. The divorce court may first enter the divorce and make appropriate financial orders and then enter orders as to child custody and visitation.
Unmarried people who have children together and then separate can get court orders for child custody and visitation. Whenever a divorce court deals with any issue involving children, including custody, visitation, principal place of residence, and education, the main priority for the divorce court is the best interests of the children.
The divorce court can enter orders for sole or joint custody. A parent with sole custody has the final say about how children should be raised, including decisions regarding education, religious instruction and medical care. Parents with joint custody share the responsibility for making those decisions, even though the children live with one parent and only visit with the other parent.
Although uncommon, but increasing as a trend, divorced parents sometimes share joint physical custody of children. This means that the children spend approximately equal time living with each parent. Much more common is for the children to live with one parent (the custodial parent) and to visit with the other parent (the non-custodial parent).
A non-custodial parent does not lose any rights under the law other than the right to have the children reside with him or her. Inheritance rights are the same between children and non-custodial parents as they are between children and custodial parents. Both parents generally have the right to school and medical records.
Losing custody of children is not the same as having one's parental rights terminated. If a custodial parent should die or become incapable of caring for the children, Connecticut family law presumes that the non-custodial parent will take over custody of the children and raise them, even if the children have a step-parent. Of course, if the non-custodial parent is unfit to raise children, then a court will award custody to someone else, either a relative, step-parent or foster parent.
When parents can work out visitation between themselves, the visitation order usually will simply call for "reasonable and liberal" visitation. If parents have difficulty agreeing on visitation, then specific visitation orders will be entered which set forth the dates and times for visitation, how transportation should be arranged, and how holidays should be handled.
The divorce courts generally like there to be as much visitation as possible between children and the non-custodial parent. However, when it appears that visitation will cause problems for the children, the divorce court can deny visitation or order that visitation be supervised.
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